Move Over 'Masc' TikTokers – It's Time for the 'Sassy Man Apocalypse'

@444pray Its the way you acttt
♬ original sound - Prayag

His cute posts clearly struck a chord with the public, perhaps because it's so refreshing to see someone turn their back on hypermasculinity, and be unabashedly themselves. It's hard not to smile when a cute straight guy is dancing with little hand signs in his car, singing little sayings or rhymes (even if we have no idea what he's actually trying to say).

"Sassy men are just so gorgeous," says one commenter on the above clip.

Another writes, "Sassy men are my fav he added a lil sprinkle sprinkle 😭"

When it became clear to Mishra he was creating a sassiness frenzy, he took the time to address the issue with a post about it, which has garnered over 30.7 million views.

@444pray Replying to @whO? ♬ original sound - Prayag

"I really don't know how to feel about this whole sassy thing, and I wanted to talk about it," he starts. "The first thing I want to say is 'GUILTY! GUILTY GUILTY!'"

He goes on to explain that sassiness isn't something you choose, but is part of your authentic personality.

"If it was up to me, I would have chosen to be nonchalant and sexy. God wanted me to be loud and sassy, what can I say?"

Amen.

According to Know Your Meme, "Sassy Man Apocalypse" refers to a catchphrase first coined on X (formerly Twitter) and subsequently shared on TikTok. After X user @yattadondada made a post that read, "We in a sassy man apocalypse," various TikTokers began sharing videos showing their "sassy" boyfriends, typically showcasing them displaying more feminine behaviors.

While some TikTokers feel they've fallen victim to this "apocalypse," others have embraced it and made it a key part of their personality, with more and more guys adopting the attitude as a good thing, rather than the end of times for male expression.

In recent weeks, the burgeoning trend has crept into the gay community as well, ushering in more feminine and over-the-top expression in the gay male community, and edging out the "masc for masc" culture.

One user, @deanacree, points out the ridiculousness of men calling each other sassy for doing something traditionally more "gay," like ordering a lemon drop on a date.

@deanacree
♬ original sound - Dean

Others are weighing in on the craze as well.

@gaydrian2000 Yassss 😍😍😍 #gay ♬ original sound - adrian

@iamizaiahhh Like I said I could be wrong, but I know a DL Man when I see one, and I'm seein' A LOOTTT of em tooo!!! 😭😭😭 #lmfao #sassymanapocalypse #gay #bi #lgbt #fyp ♬ original sound - Isaiah R

While some gay men seem to feign annoyance by the trend (hence, the term "apocalypse"), we're choosing to believe that isn't coming from a homophobic place, but instead an adjustment to their boyfriends' newfound freedom to be as authentically "extra" as they deserve to be.

@slamdrew6 He said so much without saying anything at all 🙄🙄 #sassymanapocalypse #gayrelationships #bi ♬ Black keys 2 - TayoLoxs

@etiennenajman He knew I was a sassy one long ago 🥱 #relationships #couplecomedy #lgbtq #gay #gaycouples #gaycomedy ♬ Black keys 2 - TayoLoxs

Alas, like with any trend, there can be controversy. Some social media users argue that if straight guys are being sassy on social media, it simply means they're gay. Let's hope sass trailblazers like @444pray are helping to dismantle this homophobia.

@notkingsebby Shout out to my gay people lol just be yourself😂 #sassy #sassymanapocalypse ♬ original sound - Kingsebby

@hellpr1ncess666 this is a joke pls dont come for me #girlblogging #bellahadid #sassymanapocalypse ♬ satisfaction - ⋆𐙚₊˚⊹

Regardless, we're here for any progress towards undermining old archetypal beliefs about what it means to be a guy. Whether you're gay or straight, we invite as much of the "lil sprinkle sprinkle" as you've got.

Now excuse us while we update our Grindr profile to say "Sassy guys a plus."